Dating at your pace
Take time to decide what kind of connection feels right for you.
POSITIVE SINGLES UK
Positive Singles UK for Herpes and STI Dating
Good company. A fresh start. Someone who gets it.
Discover PositiveSingles for adults living with herpes and other STIs in the UK. Explore dating, friendship and conversations with people who understand that a diagnosis is only one part of your story.
For adults 18+ in the United Kingdom.
More than a diagnosis
Start with personality, interests and the life you want to share.
Conversations with context
Meet adults who already understand why STI dating can feel different.
Dating with an STI, with more room to be yourself
Dating after an HSV or STI diagnosis can bring questions that do not usually appear on a general dating site. When should you talk about your status? How much should you share in a profile? What if you want understanding without making your diagnosis the centre of every conversation?
PositiveSingles is designed for adults living with herpes, HPV, HIV and other STIs who want to explore dating, friendship and companionship. The community provides a more relevant starting point while leaving every member free to decide what they want and how quickly to move forward.
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Start with the person
Talk about interests, routines and relationship goals—not only health status.
Choose what you want
Explore romance, friendship or a new conversation without assuming every member wants the same thing.
Move at your own pace
Take time to learn about the community before deciding whether to create a profile.
UNDERSTANDING STARTS HERE
Different stories. Room for yours.
Find a little understanding, useful advice and a way forward that feels right for you.
A place to begin
STD Dating
Find a community where you can talk about dating, friendship and life with an STI—at a pace that suits you.
Explore std dating
Find the words
Herpes Dating
How do you tell someone about herpes? Start with a clear opening and room for an honest conversation.
Explore herpes dating
See the whole person
HIV Dating
Make room for connection alongside informed conversations about HIV, privacy and intimacy.
Explore hiv dating
Take the next step
HPV Dating
Understand what an HPV result means for your questions about dating, sharing information and care.
Explore hpv datingLifestyle images are illustrative and do not indicate anyone’s health status.
What are you hoping to find?
People use herpes and STI dating communities for different reasons. Begin with the type of connection that fits your life now.
A relationship
Meet someone interested in building a lasting relationship and sharing everyday life.
Friendship and understanding
Connect with people who understand some of the realities of dating with an STI.
A new beginning
Return to dating with clearer boundaries, realistic expectations and space to take your time.
Getting to know someone, closer to home
Positive Singles UK can introduce adults to a dating community beyond their immediate social circle. Explore connections with your location, travel preferences and available time in mind.
London
Think in journey times: a meeting across London may involve several changes, even when the distance looks short.
Explore dating in London
Manchester
Agree whether you mean the city centre or Greater Manchester, and choose a meeting point both people can reach.
Explore dating in Manchester
Birmingham
Discuss travel across the West Midlands before choosing a venue; a broad location label can hide a long journey.
Explore dating in Birmingham
Edinburgh
Check the return journey as well as the outward one, especially when travelling into Edinburgh from elsewhere in Scotland.
Explore dating in EdinburghBefore you create your profile
A few decisions can make your introduction clearer: what you want, how far you can travel and what you are comfortable sharing.
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Name the connection you want
Decide whether you want dating, friendship or conversation, and say it plainly in your introduction.
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Choose a realistic distance
Think about a journey you could comfortably make for a coffee, including your return trip.
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Review what you share
Check who can view your photos and health fields before adding personal details to your profile.
PositiveSingles App on iPhone and Android
Prefer to explore dating from your phone? Continue to the PositiveSingles mobile experience to browse its current app options and learn which features are available for your device.
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Talking about herpes. Planning a first date.
Practical information can make it easier to approach dating with clearer expectations and more confidence.
How to Talk About Herpes When Dating
Consider when to raise the subject, how to choose a suitable setting and how to leave room for questions.
Read the guide
Planning a First Date in the UK
Choose a public setting, arrange your own journey and keep early plans comfortable and easy to change.
Read the guideDating guidance is not a substitute for medical advice. For testing, treatment or information about sexually transmitted infections, consult the NHS or a qualified healthcare professional.
Questions before you join
Positive-singles.co.uk is a UK-focused website introducing adults to the PositiveSingles dating community. Registration, login and member services are provided through PositiveSingles.
PositiveSingles is intended for adults living with herpes and other STIs who are interested in dating, friendship, companionship or community.
PositiveSingles serves adults in the UK, but the number and location of available profiles can change. Continue to PositiveSingles to check its current community and search options.
PositiveSingles is associated with herpes dating, including adults living with HSV-1 or HSV-2, as well as people living with other STIs. Check the official service for its current profile and condition options.
Create or access your member account through PositiveSingles. This website provides information and does not hold your password or messages. If you already have an account and cannot sign in, use the account support route before creating another profile.
No. This is a dating-focused information website and does not provide diagnosis, testing or treatment. Use NHS sexual health information or speak with a qualified healthcare professional for medical guidance.
Make space for someone new
Discover a herpes and STI dating community where adults can start with shared understanding and find the kind of connection that suits them.
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